Anonymous said: i read what that anon said about first impressions and how it's hard, especially when you're more reserved about things you share. i was wondering, how have you gotten over that? what made you start to trust other people so easily?

with age, i suppose.  realizing there’s nothing to be worried about.  not everyone is going to agree with what i say, and i have to accept that without getting upset over it.  trying to understand why someone else came to their conclusion (to whatever the problem is) and either trying to show them where they went wrong or understand what makes it right.