dearcoquette:

What do you think about all the people who don’t understand feminism? Especially the women who supposedly “are against feminism because they don’t hate men”? Should we argue or is it a lost cause?

No, we shouldn’t argue. We should teach. We should enlighten. We should in the friendliest of spirits and without the slightest trace of condescension drop so much fucking knowledge on those people that it crushes their flawed and simplistic understanding of gender politics.

We should be patient in the face of ignorance until we know for sure that it is willful. We should give them every opportunity to change their minds, because at the end of the day, very few people are built around a core of malignant, incurable misogyny. Very few people have a world view so grotesque that they actually believe women should be subjugated. Very few people will openly admit that equality isn’t a noble pursuit — especially women for whom so often their only fault is being misguided about the fundamental concepts.

No one is a lost cause until we find out for sure that their identity is tied to an aggressively misogynistic belief system, and when we come across those broken souls, we don’t argue. That’s wasted breath. We simply mark them with red flags and keep them at arm’s length, because those are the ones who aren’t safe to be around.

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Anonymous said: Last week a friend asked me how I was doing so I told them that I've been dealing with a thyroid disorder for the last few months, when they replied back they just asked for a favor... Am I wrong to be a little hurt that they seem to not give a fuck?

Not at all.  They’re a leach.

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Anonymous said: i feel like shit because my ex and i broke up and he posted a pic with a new girl, whats the best way to get over someone?

lilgivenchyprincess:

Don’t worry about what your ex is doing

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Anonymous said: what kind of glasses do you have?

super

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Anonymous said: What do you say to people that say money isn't everything?

they’ve found a balance in life that doesn’t rely on a dollar amount.

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Anonymous said: what kind of people you can't vibe wit

social climbers.

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Anonymous said: Can you be friends with someone who is a totally different persona online?

No.

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Anonymous said: Do you look up in the night sky hoping to see a spaceship?

sometimes.

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Anonymous said: 3 things you love : 3 things you hate :

love

  • photography
  • carol
  • traveling

hate

  • liars
  • shady people
  • over crowded subway trains in the summer
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Anonymous said: What's your opinion on copycat kind of people/brands ?

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Anonymous said: don't you think American Apparel ads are sexist? not just sexual, but sexist, in how their male and female portraits differ.

they sure are.

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Anonymous said: step up your blog game dude, you are slippin; the shit (you post) is getting lame, you used to post funny shit now its all corny shit. haha that rhymed all from the top of the dome don't make me start my own blog and come for your throne. get it, come for your own; talking about the asian broad you; with let her know what she's been missing with a taster of my big dick .

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Anonymous said: i knkow 420 = blaze it, but do u know why

fohk:

in psalm 4:20 jesus commands everyone to smoke the devils lettuce

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via fohk

Anonymous said: Tips on long distance relationship?

trust, v-chat, frequent visits, sexting, trust.

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